You might be someone who dreads going to receptions, seminars and other professional gatherings on your own. Well, you are not on your own; in fact, the majority of people there will feel like you to some more or lesser degree. It remains pretty scary for a lot of people to walk into a room full of strangers.

 There are a few basic rules that will make your reception experience, as well as possible networking opportunities, a lot more enjoyable.

 When you are going by yourself and just walking in makes you break out in a sweat, keep this in mind:

Before actually walking in, think of something or somebody you like very much and smile. Keep that smile going!

Once inside, familiarise yourself with the room, get a drink and see if you can spot your host.

Remember that the people you see standing around, seemingly engrossed in conversation, have, nine out of ten times, just met. It is perfectly fine to walk up and introduce yourself. You are all in the same boat! And because you walked in with a smile, people will be more curious about you and probably easier to talk to.

Having made the first contact, keep the conversation light and alive by addressing the person or people you just met with questions showing genuine interest. We all love real attention and by showing some, you will make a lasting impression!

 When the above still seems daunting, there are other tricks. One is to walk in with a smile, find your host, acknowledge the nice reception and ask to be introduced to other guests. Saves you from the first tricky moment when meeting people new to you. Once introduced be your most charming and generous self, just like described above.

The first basic rules to remember about receptions are to enjoy yourself, and to be friendly and generous.